{"id":17363,"date":"2020-10-19T09:19:29","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T09:19:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ceo-na.com\/?p=17363"},"modified":"2020-10-19T14:33:08","modified_gmt":"2020-10-19T14:33:08","slug":"5-lessons-worth-remembering-forever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/ceo-life\/health\/5-lessons-worth-remembering-forever\/","title":{"rendered":"5 lessons worth remembering all your life"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>These life lessons take most people a while but ultimately stand the test of time.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0By<\/strong> <a class=\"url fn n\" title=\"View all posts by Boonn Hem\" href=\"https:\/\/ideapod.com\/author\/boonnhem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"author noopener\">Boonn Hem<\/a>, <em>author at <a href=\"https:\/\/ideapod.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ideapod<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>We feel invincible in our 20s, but they&#8217;re actually\u00a0a time of inner exploration and self-realization.<\/p>\n<p>These are 5 life lessons I learned that you can take and mix it into your existence for a better experience.<\/p>\n<\/div><ul style=\"--awb-line-height:23.8px;--awb-icon-width:23.8px;--awb-icon-height:23.8px;--awb-icon-margin:9.8px;--awb-content-margin:33.6px;--awb-circlecolor:#a0ce4e;--awb-circle-yes-font-size:12.32px;\" class=\"fusion-checklist fusion-checklist-1 fusion-checklist-default fusion-checklist-divider type-icons\"><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-yes\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-arrow-circle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<ol>\n<li><strong>You are not special<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I use to think I was special. I felt I had something magnificent to offer to the world and\u00a0Elon Musk\u00a0better watch his back! But nope.<\/p>\n<p>We all feel that way about ourselves and it\u2019s important to feel a level of self-worth. But, unfortunately, we\u2019re not all Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg or the Dalai Lama.<\/p>\n<p>When I accepted my insignificance in this universe, the weight of\u00a0<em>needing\u00a0<\/em>to do something great dramatically lessened and I began to pay more attention to do the little things that will change\u00a0<em>my<\/em>\u00a0self-universe which is the world in close proximity around me like my job, family and friends.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a human problem thinking we\u2019re the ones noble enough to\u00a0change the world, but try to change yourself first.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-yes\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-arrow-circle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong>2. Clean your room, clean your space<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In his book,\u00a0<a id=\"LPlnk370309\" class=\"OWAAutoLink\" href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2KcRQEx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos<\/a>,\u00a0Dr. Jordan B. Peterson\u00a0highly suggest that\u00a0<a id=\"LPlnk975160\" class=\"OWAAutoLink\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-5RCmu-HuTg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you should set your house in perfect order<\/a>\u00a0before you start criticizing the world.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Peterson questions: &#8220;Have I really done everything I possibly could to set my life straight? Because maybe I shouldn\u2019t be judging its qualities or the quality of life itself or being itself for that matter if I haven\u2019t done everything I possibly could to set my life straight.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-yes\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-arrow-circle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong>3. Not everyone likes you<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Philosopher\u00a0<a id=\"LPlnk199358\" class=\"OWAAutoLink\" href=\"https:\/\/plato.stanford.edu\/entries\/ricoeur\/?PHPSESSID=83444a8a950c44f4aea6e4f3bee15550\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Paul Ricoeur<\/a>\u00a0said that there are two necessary thing you must accept: death and enemies.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to be liked by everybody so I slowly pressed down my individuality to be the person that everybody wanted me to be, that made me develop social anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>If you are standing up for yourself and lose friends in the process, they weren\u2019t your friends in the first place. Tell it like it is and the right people will come sooner or later.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-yes\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-arrow-circle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong>4. Be grateful<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is possibly the hardest lesson to learn.<\/p>\n<p>We always complain about the things that we don\u2019t have and rile ourselves up for no reason, from the moment I got up to the moment I went to bed I was complaining about my life and bad it was.<\/p>\n<p>I noticed this habit was not doing me any good and so I started naming three things I\u2019m grateful for every day.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you\u2019re driving a 20-year-old car, instead of saying, \u201cI have a crappy car. I wish that I drove a 2018 Ferrari 488 GTB.\u201d Say this, \u201cI\u2019m grateful for my car. It takes me from point A, point B and point C. I\u2019m grateful that I have transportation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Start paying attention to your needs instead of your wants and you will feel like the richest person in the world.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><li class=\"fusion-li-item\" style=\"\"><span class=\"icon-wrapper circle-yes\"><i class=\"fusion-li-icon fa-arrow-circle-right fas\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><div class=\"fusion-li-item-content\">\n<p><strong>5. First, forgive&#8230; then, love, a lot<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m aging, sure. However, there\u2019s nothing more appealing than to age graciously and to learn new things with patience in the decades to come.<\/p>\n<p>I have begun practicing\u00a0<a id=\"LPlnk167340\" class=\"OWAAutoLink\" href=\"https:\/\/ideapod.com\/why-i-have-forgiven-the-man-who-hurt-me-the-most\/\">forgiveness<\/a>\u00a0on the people that hurt me in the past and searching for the ones that have made an impact on my life,\u00a0I even contacted my first love and wished him lots of happiness even though he broke my heart into a million pieces.\u00a0I have even allowed the ones that I have wronged to openly tell me what I did so I can apologize for my mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s the point of me being angry about something that happened a decade ago?<\/p>\n<p>You need to let yourself fail with this in mind, it takes years of gut-wrenching moments, but it\u00b4s worth it.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These life lessons take most people a while but ultimately  [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":23522,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1069,50],"tags":[99,1385,1249,13,431,2657,1247,2655,1248,27,2656,2654],"class_list":["post-17363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-editors-choice","category-health","tag-ceo","tag-ceo-northam","tag-healing","tag-health","tag-help","tag-how-can-i-feel-better","tag-lessons","tag-lessons-on-healing","tag-life","tag-tips","tag-tools","tag-wellness"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17363"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17363\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24535,"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17363\/revisions\/24535"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23522"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/servidor-mxigen1.com\/ceona-antiguo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}